Sunday, January 3, 2010
I'm not big on New Year's resolutions. Probably because most of my lofty goals in January serve as sad reminders of abject failure come February or March. I do have a few goals for 2010, but I won't bore you with them. (I've got all year to bore you with them.)
I will, however share a quote that I found several years ago. It's more of an attitude adjustment than a goal. I liked this little quote (Author unknown) so much I decided to write it on my laundry room wall -- a place I find myself often in need of an attitude adjustment:
"Fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, whine less, breathe more, talk less, say more, hate less, love more...And all good things will be yours."
And as an added bonus, I'll share a poem I first read in a therapist's office many years ago. It's helped me through some tough times, and I think it's appropriate as we say goodbye to 2009:
Comes the Dawn by Veronica Shorffstall
After a while you learn the subtle difference
Between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
And company doesn't mean security,
And you begin to understand that kisses aren't contracts
And presents aren't promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats
With your head held high and your eyes open,
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child.
After a while you learn to build your roads on today
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans,
and futures have a way of falling down in midflight.
After a while you learn that even sunshine
Burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden
And decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting
For someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you can really endure,
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth
And you learn and learn ... and you learn
With every goodbye you learn.
Happy New Year, y'all! I'm looking forward to it and I hope you'll come along for the adventure. Have a blessed Sunday.