tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post178488591495563627..comments2023-12-22T04:08:47.995-06:00Comments on Hey look, a chicken!: Why I'm okay with being obnoxiouskatdishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09210738418270395622noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-18929249542665850602009-05-07T15:19:00.000-05:002009-05-07T15:19:00.000-05:00Christine,
How the heck are you? Yes, that is me...Christine,<br /><br />How the heck are you? Yes, that is me, although I can neither confirm nor deny whether or not I am working on a polka-dot wedgie. I suppose we do look alike, huh?<br /><br />Should I be expecting a blog post from you some time this year, or am I just getting my hopes up?katdishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09210738418270395622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-68174584634031801752009-05-07T15:00:00.000-05:002009-05-07T15:00:00.000-05:00Wow--is that you pulling the polka dot bikini wedg...Wow--is that you pulling the polka dot bikini wedgie, or is that Rachel? Seriously, if that's you, the likeness is uncanny.<br /><br />Regarding your post, isn't it great how His great love casts out fear...including the fear of somehow being unacceptable to just "be" the way He made us to be. When I was young, I hated being so tall. It made me totally insecure. Now I'm grateful for the height...it helps balance out my fat!Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02307298752489484902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-25768246154377945342009-05-07T09:26:00.000-05:002009-05-07T09:26:00.000-05:00I second the respect to pastors who do "that's wha...I second the respect to pastors who do "that's what she said" jokes! <br /><br />And thanks, Kathy.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04573016840618175525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-90086072778903172592009-05-07T09:07:00.000-05:002009-05-07T09:07:00.000-05:00Katdish - Alas, I no longer live in NY but I'm get...Katdish - Alas, I no longer live in NY but I'm getting really excited about what God is doing here in TampaChris Sullivanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03205884840353532195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-2269632960203119352009-05-07T05:31:00.000-05:002009-05-07T05:31:00.000-05:00Dear Crazy Casserole Burning Churchplanter,
Well ...Dear Crazy Casserole Burning Churchplanter,<br /><br />Well played, my friend. I tip my fancy, feather festooned hat of sarcasm to you.katdishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09210738418270395622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-81062014181583332812009-05-06T22:59:00.000-05:002009-05-06T22:59:00.000-05:00So, you think you are Annoying Pork Rind Sucking C...So, you think you are Annoying Pork Rind Sucking Church Planter?<br />Let me tell you something.<br />I know Annoying Pork Rind Sucking Church Planter.<br />Annoying Pork Rind Sucking Church Planter was a friend of mine.<br />You, missy, are no Annoying Pork Rind Sucking Church Planter.Crazy Casserole Burning Churchplanternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-26044923835077470512009-05-06T19:05:00.000-05:002009-05-06T19:05:00.000-05:00I'd just like to say how much I respect a pastor w...I'd just like to say how much I respect a pastor who can express a good "That's what she said" comment.Billy Coffeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08988347213957444145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-2078491260512807862009-05-06T18:41:00.000-05:002009-05-06T18:41:00.000-05:00Oh Beth, I love your comment novels! Believe it o...Oh Beth, I love your comment novels! Believe it or not, I'm a bit of a peacemaker within my own extended family. Frankly, it IS exhausting sometimes. I am outspoken and honest just about everywhere except when I get around my own family, then I magically turn into the baby sister who has nothing of value to say. I'm much better now, but only because my husband stands up for me and gives me the courage to stand up for myself in those situations. I tend to use humor as a defense mechanism (can you tell?), while he takes a more direct approach like, "That was a really crappy thing to say."<br /><br />Oh, where was I going with this? Oh, yeah. Whoever shows up, she's one of my heroes. I hope you know that.<br /><br />Tony - thanks.<br /><br />Jason - You sound a little punchy. Perhaps you need a nap.katdishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09210738418270395622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-30896647583189927182009-05-06T15:40:00.000-05:002009-05-06T15:40:00.000-05:00@Katdish- "Oh, that was tame. You have no idea." A...@Katdish- "Oh, that was tame. You have no idea." And... that's what she said. <br /><br />Okay, I'll stop now.jasonShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03420776820764592085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-63099370500325476512009-05-06T15:25:00.000-05:002009-05-06T15:25:00.000-05:00But of course... :)But of course... :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-11801719417718574282009-05-06T15:24:00.000-05:002009-05-06T15:24:00.000-05:00"I'm totally okay with someone not liking me."
Hm..."I'm totally okay with someone not liking me."<br /><br />Hmmm...I wish I could say that. I'm sure this post wasn't written with me in mind, but it speaks to me all the same. This is one of the areas I struggle in. Having super awesome Christian parents...family...church...everything growing up makes me a very blessed person indeed, but it does come with the danger of learning how to pretend very very well that you have everything together when you don't. And that IS exhausting. And I AM getting better at authenticity, but pride is one of those things I talk about with God on a daily basis. If that surprises anyone...I hope it doesn't make you paranoid and wonder which Beth will show up each day...and there I go again...trying to make everything better! Here's the thing. I am by nature a peacemaker. I always will be. But what I've learned is that it has to come from a peace inspired by GOD and not just a need to try and cover things over so everybody's all "happy."<br /><br />One of the things I like most about you Kathy: You put your words out there without apology, and it causes me to consider what I REALLY think and where I stand. And it inspires me to share what's REALLY going on with me and not be a wuss. (And sometimes you just crack me up.) These are all good things for me. That's why we're that whole Body of Christ thing. If we all fit the same little mold, how boring that would be. <br /><br />Hope you don't have to read my comment novel on your blackberry. ;)Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04573016840618175525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-84005415713269060192009-05-06T14:24:00.000-05:002009-05-06T14:24:00.000-05:00Helen - I know you do. That's why I big red monke...Helen - I know you do. That's why I big red monkey butt heart you and all my bloggity gal pals. I don't think you ever have to worry about Sherri and I actually fighting. She knows that just how I show my affection for her. But just so you know, I could totally take her down.<br /><br />Sarah - Yes. I got your email. Thank you.<br /><br />Candy - Barry White? Mantastic! (He sort of reminds me of Madea from Diary of a Mad Black Woman)<br />As far as wearing the same dress, they were freakishly similar, huh? But she's a freak like me. She's also Frank Beard's (ZZ Top) niece, so that's pretty cool.<br /><br />Billy - Thanks. I really appreciate that. Now go back to bed!<br /><br />Sherri - the thing I love about you is that you're not afraid to be you. I wouldn't change a thing. Well, except that you nag your husband too much...<br /><br />Helen - do you have a giant book of obscure limericks, jokes or poems or something?<br /><br />Wendy - thanks. A small but important distinction.<br /><br />Marni - ditto. I big red monkey butt heart your heart and your fiesty spirit. I've been a big fan of yours from SCL since way back. I'm glad we're friends.<br /><br />Annie - You are way too hard on yourself. I think you're frigintastic!<br /><br />Steph - You're exactly like you are in person as you are online. Just more polite. I'm still working on that.<br /><br />Jamie - you're like the nicest person ever. And I'm glad you put up with my foolishness.<br /><br />Tam - oh yeah. I'm all kinds of talented.<br /><br />Tony - that was great. Can I quote you?<br /><br />Jason S - Oh, that was tame. You have no idea.<br /><br />Chris - looking forward to reading it. BTW - Do you think you could get Dr. Keller's autograph for me? He's my super megapastor man crush.<br /><br />I really should check my comments more often...katdishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09210738418270395622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-16235793130758847322009-05-06T13:44:00.000-05:002009-05-06T13:44:00.000-05:00I'm going to have to write a square peg round hole...I'm going to have to write a square peg round hole post tomorrow just to keep the streak going.Chris Sullivanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03205884840353532195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-74222134231219518942009-05-06T12:54:00.000-05:002009-05-06T12:54:00.000-05:00I am totally with you on the keeping up appearance...I am totally with you on the keeping up appearances. It drives me crazy! I want to be an example of godliness, but I refuse to fake it til I make it because that misses the point.<br /><br />BTW, don't try to put your square peg in their round holes- that's what she said. Too far? Probably so... God still loves me.jasonShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03420776820764592085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-7431773554368710532009-05-06T12:52:00.000-05:002009-05-06T12:52:00.000-05:00I don't know if it is theologically sound, but I h...I don't know if it is theologically sound, but I have prayed this prayer.<br /><br />"God, you know the cracks that are in my life. Fill me with the Holy Spirit to the point that some of You spills through the cracks and into the lives of those who can see the cracks."<br /><br />From one square peg to another.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-89998653807549069062009-05-06T10:17:00.000-05:002009-05-06T10:17:00.000-05:00Love this post! And I love your "gift of obnoxious...Love this post! And I love your "gift of obnoxiousness." <br /><br />SO true that God doesn't need us, but I sure do love the fact that He chooses to use us anyway. ♥Jamie {See Jamie blog}https://www.blogger.com/profile/18212749055211487304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-20123975848838110852009-05-06T09:25:00.000-05:002009-05-06T09:25:00.000-05:00I thought sarcasm was your spiritual gift...doesn'...I thought sarcasm was your spiritual gift...doesn't that make obnoxiousness a "talent"....I'm just saying...<br /><br />-TamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-37298991898982377142009-05-06T09:00:00.000-05:002009-05-06T09:00:00.000-05:00Wow. My comment could've used a good editor. Anyon...Wow. My comment could've used a good editor. Anyone know one?<br /><br />What I meant is that I no longer keep up appearances. I kinda got off track halfway thru and may not have made that clear. <br /><br />Anywho. Real is the only way to be. And I am so blessed to have found a whole passel of square pegs online. (Is this where we congregate? Like the outcast table in the school lunchroom?) ;)Stephanie Wetzelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09856446767908308441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-126228195488105142009-05-06T08:57:00.000-05:002009-05-06T08:57:00.000-05:00This is why we're friends! My shatter-with-a-hamme...This is why we're friends! My shatter-with-a-hammer brokenness experience happened just a couple years ago. <br /><br />I was never me. God took me down to the foundation and rebuilt me on the assurance that he LOVES me. (and that my husband loves me, since I needed to learn that too) <br /><br />I had no idea it was possible to be happy and relaxed all the time. It's a lot of work to keep up appearances. <br /><br />And katdish, I hope I didn't seem like a different person when we met in person. I DO have a hard time meeting new people and talking with my mouth rather than my fingers on a keyboard. I'm still getting used to "knowing" so many people that I've never met. <br /><br />But once you get past the initial meet and greet, what you see is the real me. And of course online, 100% real from the get-go.<br /><br />Good post!Stephanie Wetzelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09856446767908308441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-67978352005925043462009-05-06T08:48:00.000-05:002009-05-06T08:48:00.000-05:00Yep, this one made me cry, just like you said it w...Yep, this one made me cry, just like you said it would. I used to struggle with being someone I wasn't so I could live up to other people's image of who they thought I should be...and that was exhausting. God worked me over pretty thoroughly on that one and I am so much happier and at peace. I actually found out I like the real me. Who knew?<br /><br />I don't think you are obnoxious. I think you speak the truth. That's really hard for me (I'm not always brave enough to level with people, not a liar, just so we're clear). I love that in people and I love it in you.Marnihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13917254303905983572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-25079482974456231842009-05-06T08:44:00.000-05:002009-05-06T08:44:00.000-05:00Yeah Wendy, I think it was found in those "Lost bo...Yeah Wendy, I think it was found in those "Lost books of the Bible".<br /><br />The gift of Obnoxiousness. Sounds pretty spiritual when you put it that way.Sherri Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01536108320748561406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-88104314409161772092009-05-06T08:40:00.000-05:002009-05-06T08:40:00.000-05:00You're not obnoxious. You have the gift of obnoxi...You're not obnoxious. You have the gift of obnoxiousness. It's a little known, but very important, spiritual gift.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10377069690077072368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-714164416609676352009-05-06T08:34:00.000-05:002009-05-06T08:34:00.000-05:00No, Sherri, I am not going to jump you. Then I ha...No, Sherri, I am not going to jump you. Then I have to deal with a Hungarian Gladiator fight with Annie, which reminds me of a poem<br />There once were two cats from Kilkenny<br />Each thought there was one Cat too many<br />So they fought and they fit<br />And they scratched and they bit<br />Til instead of two cats there weren't any.<br /><br />And Annie and I don't want to fight each other. Right Annie? Annie?Helenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18070555200892952455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-43156585397283605812009-05-06T08:13:00.000-05:002009-05-06T08:13:00.000-05:00Okay- Helen might jump me for this but, yes, YOU A...Okay- Helen might jump me for this but, yes, YOU ARE obnoxious (usually moreso over at FOTTSP) but it's alright- we love the obnoxiousness in you. It's the obnoxiouslishness that only you can dish!<br />(Usually directed at me...but I'm good with that!) I realize I give people LOTS of material!<br /><br />You , who will say pretty much anything, and me who will wear stilettos in an ice storm. We were created "different" than most...not bad- just unique.<br />I have no problem with being a little LUCY and you have no problem with who you are ,so looks to me like if someone else has a problem accepting us , it's just that...THEIR problem!<br /><br />I gotta' go shine my shoes.<br /> (Enter Sarcastic obnoxious katdish comment here)<br /><br />I love you katdish!Sherri Murphyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01536108320748561406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7558065865093418290.post-63800545091809971072009-05-06T07:09:00.000-05:002009-05-06T07:09:00.000-05:00Obnoxious? No. Honest? Yes.
To see someone so de...Obnoxious? No. Honest? Yes. <br /><br />To see someone so devoid of pretense and so comfortable in her own skin is refreshing because you don't see it very often.<br /><br />God's light does indeed shine brightest through the cracks. That's why we have so many of them. That's why I'm glad you called me out for dropping the F-bomb on my grandmother when I was six. That's why I crawled out of my death bed this morning to read this.<br /><br />And if you think a couple Hungarians having your back is good, then add a Virginia redneck. That's even better.Billy Coffeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08988347213957444145noreply@blogger.com